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Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Sometimes love works better from a longer distance. Being too close for too long is not always a recipe for happiness.

Anonymous said...: Neither is being apart. That's the impression we have when we're scared of getting attached, and usually, a good excuse for our cowardliness. Being in love is not only dealing with the good sides of being together, it's also handling the small annoying details - which are absent when we're apart, but are also part of the whole thing. Being apart can lead to two things: 1) With time, you start not feeling attached to the person, and it dies out slowly (and sometimes, not so slowly) or 2) You idealize the other. And that's the worse that can happen because when you get together again, reality comes like a brick flying at supersonic speeds towards your ear. Of course, some private space is good and necessary. But, if you need to be apart from the other, be it constantly or for long periods of time, in order to feel in love with them... then you're not in love at all. It's just an affair, or whatever you might like to call it...; 2:52 PM
Mariya said...: "Sometimes love works better from a longer distance." That`s exactely what I need to believe in now... Hope you are right :); 1:04 AM
Sve said...: @Anonymous: You are very rite. Still...I meant that somes love is possible only from a distance. Cause if you get together...it will not work.
@Maria...time will show dear! Give it a go :) Wishing u best of luck!; 12:57 PM